tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6415165695956451783.post7611921289219605967..comments2016-02-11T17:38:34.118-08:00Comments on Letters to TOMMY: My Random 3AM PostUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6415165695956451783.post-25110161765745843432010-12-21T17:25:33.677-08:002010-12-21T17:25:33.677-08:00Karie,
I always pretend he is still alive and talk...Karie,<br />I always pretend he is still alive and talk to him. I know it may not make sense to everyone, but it sure helps me. I hate when those surprises reality checks happen. I got another one tonight coming to his parents. God, that sucked!ktnabagshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14054337292167906923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6415165695956451783.post-54773560760288572672010-12-20T11:56:32.945-08:002010-12-20T11:56:32.945-08:00Hang in there Ma'am! Nothing happens in our pe...Hang in there Ma'am! Nothing happens in our perfect timing! You are going to find the right path for you, Avery, and Nathan! Still praying for ya!Family Timeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06373474669129784513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6415165695956451783.post-4816775968673555802010-12-20T10:28:01.892-08:002010-12-20T10:28:01.892-08:00I know how you feel. I feel like I say that a lot?...I know how you feel. I feel like I say that a lot? I don't really "know". I guess, I get what you're saying. I've been struggling with the denial thing as well. I'm comfortable in it until something bad happens, and the real emotions start flooding out. <br /><br />Just keep doing what feels right. I think things will come together as they are suppose to from there. Denial is part of the process. If it's where you are comfortable in the moment, sit there. When you're ready to come to terms, you will, at your own pace. <br /><br />Keep people who love you close and you will never really be alone. So far it's worked for me. I know at night or when you are by yourself and your brain starts going Mach speed, it's hard. In those times, I just close my eyes and talk to him like he's there. Sometimes it helps to think that he isn't really gone, he just isn't there like I knew him to be there before. <br /><br />I dunno. <br /><br />I think you are doing good, though. You've been an inspiration to me quite a few times, even though we haven't talked much. Thank you for that.Kariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12966033900335006659noreply@blogger.com